Norm,I know I've answered this question in depth at least one or two times before, but I'll be damned if I can find it with a search of these forums. You might try the search yourself and see if you can find something useful. Here's the closest I could get-
http://www.harmonicalessons.com/members/dcforum/DCForumID4/37.html
A few quick tips:
*The more you play along with music where you know you are in tune, the faster your ear will begin to understand what being in tune sounds like. Use the CDs: Song Keys section to find the correct key of harmonica and play along with songs. This will help train your ear.
*Start with a key of "C" diatonic or chromatic and play every note of the Major Scale along with a song until you find one note that seems to work most often, especially at the ends of main sections (resolution). A chromatic harmonica is even better because you can use the chromatic scale which has all the notes (like white and black keys of a piano). This of course implies that you know these scales and are able to identify the name of the note when you find the right one. Chromatic Scale-
http://www.harmonicalessons.com/members/tabs/tabschromatic.php
And/Or
*Buy all 12 keys of diatonics and play with each one until you find the best sounding key.
And/Or
*Use a chromatic or major scale on a keyboard and try to find the note of resolution (assuming you play a bit and have one). Asking a keyboard or guitar player friend to help with this task is also a good thing. You could even get a private lesson with a local piano or keyboard teacher to help you with this.
From the FAQs section of the website-
http://www.harmonicalessons.com/members/faqstheo.php#play_to_CDs
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